5 Common Mistakes Recruits Make Before Joining the Military

Joining the military is a significant and commendable choice, but it’s also a decision that requires both thought and preparation. Because many recruits stumble before they even begin their service, understanding and avoiding common missteps can significantly enhance your experience and readiness for military life.

What are some common mistakes candidates/recruits make before joining the military? How can I avoid them? Thanks -- Jason

Jason, that is a great question, as we can all learn from other people's mistakes. My mistake before attending the Naval Academy was that I focused too hard on making the football team and neglected the military fitness test, which you must take during your first few weeks of Plebe Summer. I failed the first fitness test I ever took in the military (sit-ups), mainly because I did not practice them and did not know how to pace the two-minute test. You can learn from my mistake by taking the fitness test a few times before you join the military to assess your strengths and weaknesses, thus avoiding "extra workouts" in your spare time.

Here are five common mistakes that those considering serving in the military make:

1. Not Approaching Fitness Training Properly

Many recruits will double down on strengths and ignore weaknesses. For instance, say you are an endurance athlete and can run all day at a five- to six-minute mile pace. But you neglect lifting and rucking prior to joining the Army. You score a 10:45 on the Army's two-mile run but can barely lift your body weight off the ground and get crushed under a 50-pound ruck. This issue is common, but the opposite is true for lifters who neglect running. You need to be well-rounded to be a useful tactical athlete.

Take the time to develop a solid fitness routine before you enlist. This helps you meet physical training requirements and boosts your confidence when facing rigorous drills. Engage in activities that build stamina and strength, and don't shy away from asking experienced military personnel for advice on effective workouts. There are plenty of ideas out there. You can find countless at the Military.com Fitness Section.

2. Not Planning Ahead

Before you enlist, review your budget, understand your future pay and identify any debts you may have. Establishing a financial plan now will allow you to focus more on your training and less on money worries once you are in uniform.

Ensure you have a place to store your belongings (family home, storage unit, etc.), as you cannot take them with you. If you have a vehicle, you may reduce your personal effects to fit in it. Take care of your bills by signing up for automatic payment withdrawals before joining, because you won't have significant administrative time during basic training programs.

3. Not Preparing Emotionally

Joining the military can be an emotional roller coaster, filled with moments of stress and uncertainty. Building a support system of friends and family who can encourage you during long training cycles and deployments is crucial.

Reflect on your motivations for joining and communicate frequently with those close to you. Keep in mind that addressing your mental health is just as significant as preparing physically. Learn skills that can help you build resilience and coping strategies in advance.

4. Not Doing Their Research

Many recruits fail to research the specific military branch they plan to join. Each branch has its unique culture, mission, expectations and locations worldwide. Familiarizing yourself with the details can help you make a more informed decision that aligns with your goals and values.

Reach out to current or former service members to gain insight into their experiences. Knowing where you will be living after your initial training is so helpful. Depending on your job choices, you can narrow those options to a few, and little will surprise you.

5. Not Communicating Effectively

Finally, don't underestimate the power of good communication skills (public and personal speaking, writing, presenting, etc.). You will soon learn that effective communication is vital in military life, both up and down the chain of command. Whether during training or in future assignments, being clear and assertive in your interactions can make a significant difference and leave no gray areas regarding what you are assigned to do. Start practicing these skills daily by engaging in conversations that challenge you and asking questions to teachers, coaches and others.

As you prepare to join the military, reflect on these common mistakes. By preparing yourself physically, financially, emotionally and socially, you will enhance your enlistment experience and laid a solid foundation for an enjoyable military career. You will get out of your experience what you put into it. Thanks for choosing to serve.

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