Editor's Note: This article is Part 3 of a 10-part series. Click here to read Stage 2.
Now for the next building block: Your contacts -- all of them.
I. Spotting
Open a file on your computer and list the names, addresses, phone numbers and email addresses for the following people:
- School acquaintances from Grades K-12. This will require networking and sleuthing of the first order, especially if you were a military kid, moving around all the time. Do the best you can without thinking you have to find everyone. There will almost certainly be gold in this list, so don't ignore it.
- College. The alumni office knows where just about everyone lives.
- Fraternity. The headquarters knows where just about everyone lives.
- Sports. Your coaches often know where all their winners are located.
- Military training. Unless your career was spent with classmates nearby, this won't be easy. Try Military.com's Buddy Finder link on the Community page.
- Parents. Retirement-age friends and classmates these days usually have parents alive, well and alert. Talk to the moms and dads; they often live nearby.
- Network, network, network. Ask people whether they know the whereabouts of the others.
Nuclear Tip: One of the most powerful signals about your integrity is your continued association with people you have known since you were very young. They will often unselfishly and quickly pass along your name as someone they have known since (fill in the blank) who wants to enter their field.
II. Finding
The most amazing tool kit for locating people is the internet. Use your old address books or the sources cited above for spelling and basic information. Here are some favorite places to look (some of them are even free!):
- http://www.switchboard.com
- http://www.docusearch.com
- http://www.peoplefinders.com
- http://www.google.com
III. Crisscrossing
Your next challenge is to take the list you prepared earlier regarding occupations and crisscross with your list of contacts. It is critically important to identify which of your contacts are involved in any of the occupations where you believe you would be comfortable.
They do not have to be employed directly in that industry, particularly if they just retired. What you are after will be clearly evident in the next stage. Don't worry about location just yet. We'll get there in a few stages.
You now have your list of critical contacts matched to your list of occupations of greatest interest. Your next step is Stage 4: The Billion-Dollar Question.
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